Sabbath in Motherhood

For the past five plus years I have heard people speak about taking a Sabbath and laugh, I mean I am a mom of four. How in the world am I supposed to not work one day a week? My work involves wiping butts, cleaning up messes and making sure the growing little people are sustained with some form of caloric intake each day. Rest is non-existent in my world. I have had the word Sabbath written in a journal for weeks, maybe months, in hopes to study up on it, to get a better understanding so I could find ways to honor God in a weekly Sabbath. I decided I needed to get a better understanding of Shabbat first and foremost.

I decided to do a quick Google search and see what I could come up with, first were a lot of dictionary answers and a wiki page but then I ran across and there I found some fascinating insights I hadn’t previously understood. The first thing the site says is, “Shabbat is a joyful day of rest.” [Emphasis mine] That sentiment alone is paradigm shifting for me. In our current culture taking a day off is nearly unheard of and as a mom stopping for a day sounds overwhelming because what about all of the things I need to get done. In Jewish culture Shabbat is something they look forward to with great anticipation, it is referred to as a bride or queen. A bride is never denied on her wedding day, nor should we deny Shabbat.

There are two commandments that go with Shabbat: to remember (zakhor) and to observe (shamor). In the origination of Shabbat it was too commemorate two things, the creation and the exodus from Egypt. So in the command to zakhor God was calling the Israelites to remember how He created the heavens and the earth as well as their freedom from slavery to the Egyptians. Practically for me in this time I feel as though it is to remember God as creator and how He has set me free from my bondage. I am not sure I give pause weekly to all God has saved and redeemed me from and to do that is to take part in Shabbat. Shamor has more to do with the practicality of how God desires us to honor Him and the Sabbath. In Jewish law the word that has been translated as “work” is the word “melachah.” Melachah has nothing to do with your occupation, which makes sense, seeing that priest can still lead services, instead it has to do with a work that is creative or something you can control within your environment, taking dominion of something.

When Jesus said, “The Sabbath was made for man and not man for the Sabbath” he meant it. The Sabbath isn’t about restricting you from things it is about freeing you up for the important things in life, God and family. The Sabbath about making room, being intentional with time to truly celebrate and embrace the life the Lord has set before you. Typing this out makes me giddy with anticipation and teary-eyed thinking of how lovingly God was to carve out time to invest in family. He truly is for us. He wants us to have a pleasurable life, full of joy.Sabbath

As of right now I don’t know what this is going to look like in our household but mark my word I am going to allow my shifted mindset to create new parameters for our week. I will raise my boys to mindfully celebrate the freedom Christ brought and the beauty of God’s creation each and every week. Leisurely meals are also a large part of Shabbat, so are scripture readings and playing games as a family. I love the idea of  implementing each of these aspects to our weekly Sabbath. A bride doesn’t neglect the preparations of her wedding and so I too will choose to diligently prepare for this beautiful opportunity to honor God, in honoring the Sabbath.

I hope in a few weeks or maybe months I will be able to write again about how we are observing the Sabbath in our home. Wish me luck.

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I am an at home wife and mom of four active man-cubs. My life has turned out to be Nothing Like I Expected but instead I have been given the honor to live a life that the Creator of the Universe designed especially for me. "A man’s heart plans his way, But the Lord directs his steps." Proverbs 16:9
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7 thoughts on “Sabbath in Motherhood

    1. Janice, thank you so much! I love you too! I am so grateful when Cara married Daniel we got you and David too!

  1. I love it! I love the reminder it provides. From what I understand, the Sabbath was a foreshadowing of the rest Jesus would provide for believers. I think it’s Hebrews 4 that talks about rest for the believer. Because of Jesus, is now a state that we can learn to be in daily with Holy spirit in us. I’ve read that adhering to Shabbat (one specific day) now that we have the fulfillment the of the Sabbath is like reaching for a shadow when the real thing is standing right in front of you. I am probably in the minority among people I know and maybe I haven’t read all there is to read about it, but based on what I see in God’s Word now, I don’t see a certain day as sacred or mandatory anymore. To my knowledge, the Sabbath is now a place get to reside in daily (like so many things, it’s simple but hard!).
    Even though I don’t see Shabbat as a commandment anymore, I think it is a sweer concept and can serve as a reminder for what we as believers have everyday with Christ.

      1. I love hearing your perspective as well, Kristin! I am going to go dig into Hebrews 4 now. I definitely think we need to learn to reside in a place of rest in the day to day. There is so much tension in what of the law is still necessary since the fulfillment of Christ but for now I love the idea of being intentional about setting aside a day for family.

  2. Love this Lauren! I’m excited for you to experience the amazing joy of Shabbat! I can tell you deciding to take this command seriously has completely changed my life. At first it was hard to get in the swing of things and honestly a little overwhelming but now I can’t imagine trying to survive this busy and hectic life without it. There is something so refreshing about knowing no matter how chaotic the week is I can look forward to resting and spiritual refilling on Shabbat.
    Looking forward to hearing more on this from you!

    1. Taylor, first off so good to hear from you! I would love to hear any and all thoughts/tips you have on this. I am looking forward to getting to that place as well. Right now the thought of getting caught up let alone ahead to make Shabbat possible seems nearly impossible but I am looking forward to finding away. ❤️

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